If you replied ‘yes,’ that’s wonderful.

But you must search your heart and deal with issues from past relationships that could affect your marriage.

A person can love us with all their heart and do everything the Bible tells them, but you would still be miserable if you haven’t dealt with your issues.

Your spouse cannot make you feel secure – that is something within that you need to take to God.

THE GOOD NEWS…

Jehovah will deliver you from every one of your hang-ups and the nagging feeling of fear and anxiety hovering over you.

It would be best to be set free from all baggage if you desire to be a godly, stable spouse before standing at the altar.

Meditate on Ephesians 5:22-33 to learn what the Bible says about the relationship between husbands and wives.  And study 1 Corinthians 13: 1-13 to discover what genuine love is and how it is to be displayed.

And put on the new nature created in God’s likeness, which shows itself in the upright and devout life called for by the truth” Ephesians 4:24 (REB).

Discuss how you’ve made up your mind to be a godly spouse: