Have you worked on yourself so you will be prepared and ready when God allows you to meet that ‘special’ someone created just for you?

Have you asked God to remove and free you from spirits of self-centeredness, insecurity, loneliness, and super sensitiveness?

Have you done an honest evaluation of yourself and asked the Holy Spirit to deliver you from pride, control, arrogance, and self-aggrandizement?

Have you asked God to show you what you need to work on to be a godly, loving, compassionate, supportive mate?

The good news is that you can prepare if you desire a mate.

Ask the Holy Spirit to help you surrender your selfish desires, needs, and interests to Him.

Give yourself totally and completely to Jesus and let His Holy Spirit lead, teach, guide, and direct you.

Crucify the flesh and all its lusts – self-centeredness, insecurity, loneliness, hyper-sensitiveness, pride, control, condescension, and self-aggrandizement.

Ask God to show you what you need to work on to be a godly, loving, compassionate, supportive mate.

Keep in mind the list is not all inclusive.

God will reveal your particular issues, and what you need to surrender to the Holy Spirit.

Saints of God, if we totally and completely surrender our lives to God, spend consistent and frequent time with Him, and internalize and obey His word; our mates will be drawn to us.

We will not need to worry about meeting the ‘one’ because the holiness of God indwelling us will draw our mate to us.

Commit your way to the Lord, Trust also in Him, and He will do it…………………………………………………………….Psalm 37:5 NASB